Jordan: ‘I have rights and I want to be able to live like everybody else’
Mar 14, 2019
Women’s Leadership Councils help women in Jordan take charge of their lives as refugees
It has been a hard eight years for Syrian women living as refugees.
According to UN Women, in Lebanon, 79 per cent of women interviewed said they were unable to meet their basic needs and in Iraq, 82 per cent cited economic insecurity as their primary concern.
As a result of limited employment opportunities, women rely on other family members or resort to restricting their household’s food. There have also been reports of withdrawing children from school to save money so that they could contribute to the household income.
The conflict has upended traditional gender roles, with some women now becoming head of household and sole breadwinner for their families.
Across the region, some refugee women see this as an opportunity and feel their voices are being heard for the first time. They are expressing the desire to work in paid employment and even starting their own businesses. Others see this new role, the increased responsibilities and the need to work, as necessary changes for their families’ survival.
Thanks to the support of the Government of Canada and our generous donors, CARE is working in Jordan to help Syrian refugees to move forward with their lives, despite the challenges they face.
CARE-initiated Women’s Leadership Councils allow women to come together to learn, discuss and develop new skills they can share with their community. Below are two stories of women that have joined these councils.
Emiline, 39, is a married Syrian mother of three. (Above photo, left)
When she fled to Jordan in 2012 with her husband and children, she found herself trapped inside four walls.
She was too afraid to leave her home, and wouldn’t let her children leave either. Her husband couldn’t find work and they had no source of income. This turned their household into a place where no one felt happy or safe.
“I became a different person; I yelled at my kids, I stopped talking to my husband, and I locked myself in a room most of the time. The walls were closing in on me,” says Emiline.
A neighbour suggested she get out of the house and participate in something that might take her out of her misery.
“The first session I ever attended was at CARE, and it was about women’s rights. I remember going back home and telling my husband to take us back to Syria if this was how we were going to continue living. I have rights, and I want to be able to live like everybody else. The next session I attended was about child abuse. I was heartbroken to know that my attitude and feelings were directly affecting my children.”
Emiline did not stop working to improve her life. Eventually she became one of the leaders at CARE’s Zarqa Women Leadership Council.
“I now stand and talk to other women from a hurtful experience. I tell them that I was exactly where they are now, and show them that I’m a live example of how things improve when you are determined to be better. My husband and children are so proud of me. I’m proud of myself.”
Rihab lives in Zarqa, Jordan, along with her husband and five children. (Above photo, right)
She became a member of CARE’s Zarqa Women’s Leadership Council when it first began in 2016. This was her first experience in a leadership role, and she was very new to topics such as gender, violence and human rights.
“I had no idea that refugee women had this many rights, until I was trained to become a trainer on these topics,” says Rihab.
“When I was in Syria, I used to be a psychology and a sociology teacher in a boys’ school, which is why it was very difficult for me to be unemployed when I came to Jordan in 2013,” says Rihab.
Rihab found her calling when she was introduced to the Women’s Leadership Council and was able to be an active member of society again.
“I have always considered my children to be my greatest accomplishment in life. They are all very high achievers at school. My second greatest achievement is that I was able to rise from a very dark place due to my work with CARE in the Council.”
After a year and a half of training other women, the Council started initiatives that would help them reach a wider audience of Syrian women and educate them on the most important topics.
“My initiative was called ‘First Aid at Your Home’, where I taught 10 women basic first aid skills that can save their lives, or a family member’s life. They, in turn, would teach 10 other women all the lifesaving skills that they learned.”
Rihab says her work with CARE has also helped her work with other organizations.
“I was able to build my CV and work with NRC and UNICEF as a leader for change. This also allowed me to be a leader in my own household and set an example for my children to be leaders as well. My son is even enrolled in the CARE Youth Council because he always says that he wants to be just like me.”
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